From the author of Love Warrior, check out this talk by Glennon Doyle Melton.
The value for women is to begin by allowing the pain that you have pushed down forever!
Each moment, Revelation flashes from heaven to the soul:
“How long will you live like dregs in wine. Rise up!”
Your sins make you heavy like dregs; burn them in Love!
Rise, clapping your hands, to the top of the jar.
Don’t constantly stir up mud, if you want your water clear;
Let your dregs become transparent, let your grief settle.
– Jalal-ud-Din Rumi